Episode 1 - Building and Living a "Healthy Grief Recovery Journey"
Lois Hall once said:
Unresolved grief is the #1 unaddressed public health issue of the day, and 100% of people grieve.
Episode 2 - Why Don't I Know How To Lose Things?
Christopher Day and Qing Gu once said:
It's unrealistic to expect people to be resilient, if their teachers who constitute a primary source of their role models do not demonstrate resilient qualities.
Episode 3 - Helping A Friend Grieve
Laura Jack once said:
When we shift away from fixing, advice-giving, pitying and judging, and instead begin validating the experience, we can stop carrying other peoples hurt.
Megan Devine Amazing 3 minute video (please click on red link below)
Click Here for - How do I help a Grieving Friend
Hospice Peterborough 37 minute Podcast on Grief and Guilt
Click Here for Hospice Peterborough Podcast on Grief and Guilt
Episode 4 - How I Actually Grieve
Elizabeth Gilbert once said:
Deep grief sometimes is almost like a specific location, a coordinate on a map of time.
When you are standing in that forest of sorrow, you cannot imagine that you could ever find your way to a better place.
But if someone can assure you that they themselves have stood in that same place, and now have moved on, sometimes this will bring hope.
Cynthia G. Kelley once wrote:
My grief is like a river, I have to let it flow..
But I myself determine just where the banks will go.
Some days the current takes me in waves of guilt and pain.
But there are always quiet pools where I can rest again.
I crash the rocks of anger my faith seems faint indeed..
But there are other swimmers who know that what I need
are loving hands to hold me when the waters are too swift..
And someone kind to listen when I just need to drift
Grief’s river is a process of relinquishing the past..
By swimming in HOPES channels, I’ll reach the shore at last.
Below is a link to the Mayo Clinic information about complicated grief.
Click here to view the Mayo Clinic summary information about Complicated Grief
Episode 5 - Grief and Grieving Through the Lens of Neuroscience
Neuroscientist Dr. O’Connor Once said:
Accepting is knowing that a person is gone, that they will never return, that there is nothing to be done about things that happened in their lifetime, that regrets and goodbyes are part of the past. Accepting is focusing on life, as it is now without the deceased person, without forgetting the deceased person.
Article on why seeing grieving as learning explains why the process takes so long:
Seeing grieving as learning explains why the process takes time | Psyche Ideas
Dr. O’Connor Once said:
Once you have experienced deep grieving, you walk through a doorway to a whole community of people that you would otherwise never have understood or empathized with. You probably would not choose this door if the choice was yours. And yet here you are on the other side with knowledge about yourself, and a marvelous brain that you can utilize to build and navigate a new world.
Episode 6 - Grief Recovery Workshops
Neuroscientist Dr. O'Connor Once Said:
Seeing grieving as learning explains why the process takes time.
Julie Stokes Once Said:
For adults, grief is like wading through an enormous river. Whereas for children it's puddle jumping, but when they're in the puddle, it's no different to the river
Andrea Warnick Once Said:
Kids can be little detectives and do best when given the truth.
Kids need to trust the adults in the room. This starts with the adults being honest.
Very good article on Preparing Children for Funerals and Memorials:
Click on this link for PDF "Preparing Children for Funerals and Memorials
Episode 7 - Daily Affirmation List (when actively grieving)
Bruce Lee once said:
I fear not the fighter who has practiced 10,000 kicks once each, but rather I fear the person who has practiced 1 kick 10,000 times.
Episode 8 - Feel It To Heal It Calendar
Philosopher Seneca once said:
Try not to be miserable about future misery.
Episode 9 - Feel It To Heal It Steering Wheel
Alex Elle once said:
I accept that after all the darkness we face in this life, there can and will be light.
Below is a link to my latest Word Document of my Steering Wheel: